Empowering Survivors: Addressing Police Failings and Misconduct with Knowledge on Legislation and Practices
Our mission is to address police failings in domestic abuse cases, emphasising the need for reform to protect victims and prevent victim-blaming. We aim to foster understanding of post-separation abuse, advocate for transparency and accountability, and provide resources to empower survivors and promote systemic change.
This video exposes the negligence of West Mercia Police Officer #19 in a domestic violence and child abuse case, highlighting systemic failures and the urgent need for reform. Through the founder of "Nurse Against Abuse," we see the profound harm caused and the call for justice and accountability.
Together for Change: Ending Injustice
Discover the unsettling case of a West Mercia Police officer with 38 years of service facing unfounded accusations in a culture of perceived corruption. Dedicated to protecting victims, the officer now feels targeted for his integrity. Explore the author's reflections on threats and corruption within the force, emphasising the danger this 'witch-hunt' poses to public safety and the officer's mental state. Read on to uncover the documented lies from fellow officers and ongoing efforts to expose wrongdoing within the police force.
Over the past year, I endured relentless distress due to police inaction, living in constant anxiety and frustration over systemic failures and victim-blaming. Determined to uncover the truth, I found my voice and began piecing together the timeline of leaks to my ex, which caused unprecedented harm. West Mercia Police evaded all responsibility for addressing the corruption, desperately trying to scapegoat an innocent officer while removing the only source who could see the truth. My story highlights serious breaches of confidentiality by the police, enabling my ex to gain unwarranted insights and raising questions about the integrity of law enforcement. Through personal trauma, including PTSD, I have learned to navigate my experiences and now share my story to advocate for change and support others in similar situations.
Raising Awareness Through Personal Journeys: A Safe Space for Sharing, Support, and Advocacy
We are dedicated to raising awareness about police misconduct through the lens of personal journeys. By sharing experiences, we aim to shed light on the challenges faced by victims of misconduct and support others in similar situations. This website provides a safe space for sharing stories, offering resources, and fostering a community of support and advocacy.
Policing Standards and Ethical Guidelines
Code of Ethics: Principles and Practices
Code of Practice for Ethical Policing
Promoting Ethical and Professional Behaviour
Ethical Decision-Making in Policing
Guidance for Ethical Conduct in Law Enforcement
Home Office Guidance for Police Officers
Professional Standards and Accountability
Ethical Policing: A Comprehensive Guide
Code of Practice for Victims of Crime (Victims' Code)
Joint Agency Guide to the Victim Personal Statement
Recognising and responding to vulnerability-related risks
Working Together to Safeguard Children
The guidelines and codes aim to ensure policing upholds the highest standards of integrity, accountability, and ethics. They establish clear principles for ethical behaviour and professional conduct, provide guidance on addressing misconduct, and support public trust in law enforcement. By offering detailed frameworks, they enhance the effective and transparent functioning of police agencies, safeguarding the rights and welfare of both the public and police personnel.
Legislation Addressing Police Misconduct
Police (Conduct) Regulations 2020
Police (Complaints and Misconduct) Regulations 2020
Police (Performance) Regulations 2020
Home Office Guidance for Police Officers
Statutory Guidance on Police Conduct
These pieces of legislation and guidelines ensure UK policing is conducted with integrity, accountability, and transparency. They establish standards for conduct, performance, and ethics, address misconduct and complaints, protect victims' rights, and promote public trust. By setting detailed procedures, they support ethical policing, enhance law enforcement effectiveness, and safeguard the welfare of the public and police personnel.
Empowering Survivors: Stories of Strength and Resilience
Throughout the website, and within the resource section, you will find links to the following:
Articles: Informative pieces covering crucial topics such as coercive control, narcissism, and systemic corruption. They provide in-depth insights and analysis to enhance understanding and awareness.
Videos and Webinars: Featuring visually accessible content designed to educate and inform visitors. It includes expert-led resources and engaging videos that delve into important issues, offering practical knowledge and advice.
Books and References: Recommendations for further reading. This curated list of books and references offers additional information and perspectives on a variety of subjects to support continued learning and exploration.
Please send your stories in for content, using the "Contact Us" button. By building a community of understanding, I hope that coming together will help others.
The narrative details a personal experience of police misconduct over 14 months, highlighting ongoing corruption within a police force. Despite multiple investigations, accountability remains elusive, with the system seemingly protecting abusive officers. Anonymous reports were made against the author, further complicating the situation and revealing possible collusion. Efforts to advocate for justice have led to extensive documentation evidencing police failings. The author is learning about legal precedents concerning misconduct, aiming to promote systemic reform. The text underscores the broader issues of accountability and transparency within law enforcement agencies, particularly concerning misconduct and the culture of silence.
03/01/25
Victim Blaming and Increased Risk of PTSD
Victims of domestic abuse often face significant challenges in seeking justice and support. One of the critical issues they encounter is victim blaming by police, which can exacerbate their trauma and negatively impact their mental wellbeing. This paper explores the phenomenon of police victim blaming in cases of domestic abuse and its effects on the mental health of victims, particularly focusing on the development of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) due to retraumatisation.
Over the past year, I endured relentless distress due to police inaction, living in constant anxiety and frustration over systemic failures and victim-blaming. Determined to uncover the truth, I found my voice and began piecing together the timeline of leaks to my ex, which caused unprecedented harm. West Mercia Police evaded all responsibility for addressing the corruption, desperately trying to scapegoat an innocent officer while removing the only source who could see the truth. My story highlights serious breaches of confidentiality by the police, enabling my ex to gain unwarranted insights and raising questions about the integrity of law enforcement. Through personal trauma, including PTSD, I have learned to navigate my experiences and now share my story to advocate for change and support others in similar situations.
The Cost of Integrity: When Protectors Become Perpetrators
This blog post explores the author's harrowing experience with police misconduct and corruption. It details the emotional and psychological toll of dealing with a corrupt police officer who manipulated the system to protect himself while causing harm to the author and her children. The post highlights the challenges of seeking justice, the impact of systemic failings, and the resilience required to navigate such adversities. The author also shares how nature provided solace and grounding amidst the chaos, offering a glimpse into her journey towards healing and recovery. 27/12/24
Stories of Honour Amongst Police Misconduct
Sgt Atkins
Currently awaiting a directions hearing for a crime he never committed, for acting on domestic abuse and supporting neurodiverse victims. Unfortunately, an old Chief Superintendent is the co-founder of my ex's uncle's business and is still heavily linked to the police. Sgt Atkins was accused and arrested 3 weeks after my ex, who was abusing me and my children, had been arrested. Despite 9 months passing since the Sergeant's arrest, information continued to be leaked to my ex-partner, and, unsurprisingly, the abuse continued. I will update the story after court with a PowerPoint about events prior to meeting him.
Sgt Treetop
Sgt Treetop, the fifth officer entrusted with addressing the complaints regarding PC Rolls' failings, exemplifies unparalleled integrity and dedication. Despite witnessing the failings of others, the Professional Standards Department informed him that the complaint against PC Rolls would remain internal.
Given the department's previous attempt to scapegoat the delay in handling the complaint with factual inaccuracies regarding Sgt Atkins not informing an inspector, it seemed clear that despite the evidence, the complaint would go no further due to the ongoing witch-hunt against Sgt Atkins.
Although he did not verbalise his thoughts and had to deliver the bad news, Sgt Treetop demonstrated empathy, understanding, and professionalism. His unwavering commitment to justice and transparency was reminiscent of Sgt Atkins. I worry he won't fit in among the corrupt.
Meeting Sgt Treetop in my work office and discussing the complaint from a fresh was an invaluable experience, as it gave me a touch of hope, hearing his reasons for joining the police and Coming from a generation that joined the police force to protect and serve the public, Sgt Treetop embodies the core values of the police force that I had previously respected for over three decades. His actions and manner uphold the actual attributes of what the police service should stand for, in stark contrast to some of his contemporaries.
I hope his dedication to doing what is right does not make him a target for those he is surrounded by.
DC Jackie
In this poignant blog post, the author shares their harrowing journey of reliving abuse while recounting their story to 19 different police officers over 12 months. The emotional toll of this process, compounded by systemic failures and personal biases within the police force, has left the author feeling isolated and drained. Despite finding solace in the support of two compassionate officers, the author now faces the uncertainty of losing this crucial support. This account highlights the profound impact of police misconduct and the resilience required to navigate such challenges. It underscores the need for accountability and genuine care within the system to support victims of abuse effectively.
Due to her current status and the situation surrounding it, I can't write what I would like to about this officer, but one day this section will explain who she is and the reasons she made such a difference. Until then, here is a blog that I wrote when she was stopped from showing humanity and prevented from doing right by victims and acting on corruption within the force.
Comprehensive Legal Protections and Victim Rights Supported by the Police and Criminal Justice System
Achieving Best Evidence in Criminal Proceedings (ABE Guidance)
Victim Personal Statement (VPS)
Independent Domestic Violence Advisors (IDVAs)
Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVAs)
Victims' Commissioner's Guidance
Citizens advice victim service
Good Practice Guide for Justice Professionals (SpLD Handbook)
Autism: A Guide for Police Officers and Staff
Counselling and Psychological Therapy Services
Organisational Support and Referral Procedures
Legal Aid and Advocacy Services
Crisis Intervention and Emergency Services
Voice of the child, police guidance
Criminal Injuries Compensation Scheme
These guidelines, policies, and support services ensure comprehensive care and protection for victims within the criminal justice system. They establish ethical standards and provide frameworks to address various victim needs, from risk assessments and psychological support to specific measures for vulnerable witnesses and victims of particular crimes. By offering detailed guidance and specialised support, they promote fairness, safety, and justice, enhancing the effectiveness and empathy of law enforcement and prosecution practices.
My Personal Journey, EXPAND
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Ongoing Probe into Police Misconduct Persists
This blog post explores the author's personal experiences with police misconduct while navigating the aftermath of domestic abuse. It highlights the challenges faced in seeking justice and the emotional toll of dealing with systemic failings. The author shares insights into the investigation process, the impact on her mental health, and the importance of resilience and support in overcoming such adversities.
In this blog post, I reflect on the past year and the significant impact of police misconduct on my life. I share my experiences with systemic corruption, false accusations, and the emotional toll it has taken on me and my family. From the arrest of a well-respected sergeant to the personal struggles I faced due to malicious reports and systemic failures, this post highlights the challenges of dealing with institutional corruption and the ongoing fight for justice and accountability.
This blog post recounts the author's harrowing experience with domestic abuse and the subsequent failures of the police system. It highlights the emotional and psychological toll of dealing with systemic failings, the ongoing struggle for justice, and the profound impact on the author's mental health. Despite the challenges, the author finds solace in nature and continues to fight for her safety and well-being, drawing strength from the memory of loved ones.
This blog post shares a deeply personal account of attending family court amidst ongoing manipulation and distress. It highlights the physical and emotional toll of facing an abuser in court, the challenges of dealing with false accusations, and the visible and invisible impacts of manipulation. The narrative underscores the urgent need for family courts to recognise and address the complexities of manipulation and its profound impact on both the resident parent and the child. By advocating for stronger protections and better support systems, we can help ensure a safer and healthier future for all children and their families.
This blog post details the author’s ongoing battle with police misconduct and the trauma of repeatedly reliving their experiences. Despite speaking up, they feel their efforts have been in vain as their files are now with the police, and trust is shattered. The post highlights the anxiety of dealing with new officers, the physical and emotional toll of preparing for meetings, and the frustration of recounting their story multiple times. It underscores the need for better support and accountability within the police force, and the author’s reliance on music for emotional regulation during these challenging times.
This blog post details the author’s struggle with police misconduct and the ongoing fight for justice. Despite enduring nine months of distress and repetitive updates from different officers, the police have failed to address their case adequately. The author highlights the emotional toll, the impact on their mental health, and concerns about potential connections between their ex-partner and the police. In a desperate bid for justice, the author reaches out to media outlets, hoping to expose the systemic issues within the police force.
In this compelling blog post, the author explores the profound and detrimental impact of a single police officer’s actions on their life after leaving an abusive ex. The failure of this officer has caused significant harm, leaving the author to navigate the aftermath and placing an unfair burden on another officer. This personal account highlights the critical need for accountability and competence within the police force to protect and support victims of abuse effectively.
Recognising Children as Victims
The CPS has updated its guidance to recognise children as victims of domestic abuse, regardless of whether they were present during violent incidents. This guidance ensures that the impact of domestic abuse on children is considered during the justice process.
Provides a framework for safeguarding children and ensuring their welfare. It places a duty on local authorities to investigate if they suspect a child is suffering or likely to suffer significant harm.
outlines how organisations and individuals should work together to safeguard and promote the welfare of children. It recognises the impact of domestic abuse on children and provides a framework for multi-agency cooperation
Therapeutic Interventions
Support Agencies
NSPCC: Provides support and resources for children affected by domestic abuse. Contact: 0808 800 5000. elp@nspcc.org.uk
Childline: Offers help and support for children and young people. Contact: 0800 1111.
Refuge: The largest UK domestic abuse organisation for women and children. Contact: 0808 2000 247.
Action for Children: Campaigns for the rights and support of children affected by domestic abuse.
Childline - help and support for children and young people
The Children’s Society – guidance for young people on both domestic abuse and teen relationship abuse
Barnardo’s - support for families affected by domestic abuse
Family Lives - support through online forums
Rights of Women - guidance about child contact arrangements relating to coronavirus
Victim Support children and young people support and community-based services and community-based services for the whole family
Support for Victims and Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (SVSCSA) Fund- This fund, jointly provided by the Home Office and the Ministry of Justice, supports organisations working at a national level to provide services for victims and survivors of child sexual abuse.
Five Rivers: This organisation offers a range of psychological interventions for children and young people, including play therapy, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), and mentalisation-based approaches. They focus on developmental trauma, disrupted attachments, and parenting.
NHS Children and Young People's Mental Health Services (CYPMHS): These services provide support for a wide range of mental health needs, including talking therapies like CBT, counselling, and family therapy. They also offer self-help support and advice.
TPC Therapy: Specialises in creative therapies that allow children and young people to explore their experiences in a safe way. They offer play therapy, drama therapy, and creative psychotherapy, among others.
Attachment-Based Therapy Providers: Various therapists and counsellors across England offer attachment-based therapy. This therapy focuses on how early attachment experiences with caregivers influence current emotional and relational patterns.
Child-Parent Psychotherapy (CPP): This service provides resources and support to help young children and families recover and heal after stressful and traumatic events. They offer a range of therapeutic interventions designed to strengthen the parent-child relationship.
NSPCC: Offers various parenting interventions aimed at preventing child maltreatment and enhancing parent-child relationships. They provide evidence-based recommendations and support tailored to individual needs.
These agencies and facilities are dedicated to providing the necessary support and interventions to help children process their experiences and heal from the effects of domestic abuse. By utilising these resources, we can ensure that children receive the care and support they need to recover and thrive.
this guidance sets out what constitutes domestic abuse, how to identify it, and best practices for responding. It recognises children who see, hear, or experience domestic abuse as victims in their own right.
This guidance provides a framework for commissioning services to tackle violence against women and girls. It includes practical advice for commissioners on how to effectively support anyone affected by VAWG, including children.
LINKS TO FORMS AND APPLICATIONS
Family Court
- Apply for certain orders under the Children Act 1989: Form C1
- Form C1A: Provide supplemental information when making or responding to allegations of harm and domestic violence
- Family court applications that involve children (CB1)
- Enforcing a child arrangements order (CB5)
- Form C8: Apply to keep your contact details confidential from other parties in family proceedings
- Make an application in existing court proceedings relating to children: Form C2
- Apply for a non-molestation or occupation order: Form FL401
- Apply for a court order to make arrangements for a child or resolve a dispute about their upbringing: Form C100
- Form D89: Request for personal service by a court bailiff (applications issued before April 2022)
- Section 91(14) barring orders Updated 3 January 2024
- Assessing Risk of Harm to Children and Parents in Private Law Children Cases
Police Conduct & Misconduct documents
Domestic Abuse Policy Guidance and Documetns
Wellbeing Support Resources
CBT
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